Sometime it happens a guy hides his loving feelings for his (Girl) friend, until the point where she starts dating with a new guy. So, this may work in the movies a lot, but in real life, if you ever do something like that, you’re definitely setting yourself up for failure. If you feel love about a girl who is already a friend of yours, you have a good chance to go through this. But if you don’t know much about this girl yet, you have to do some efforts.
If you don’t know about the girl, you have to approach her in a way or other. But remember that first impression is the most important. Is she someone you walk past occasionally? or she is around you on day to day life?Then it will be a warm smile with expressing good wishes (Ex: Good morning) at first. So this will lead to a chat in days for sure.
Keep remember that if you are having a chat, girls tend to look at your face, so don't immediately assume that she likes you. When you talk with her, look directly at her. While talking, make sure to look at her face and specifically her eyes. Pay more attention to what she is saying, so when she asks you something or stops talking, you can continue the conversation intelligently. Don't get caught staring at her body. If she doesn't look at you or she ignores you, step back, and leave her alone for a while. Some girls don't like looking in the eyes and talking. Read her body language instead. And always remember to dress in well and clean.
Make her feel comfortable around you, doing by good humor. Be very simple. Try to talk with some funny. Charm her and compliment her often. Let her see that you notice the little things about her that makes her pretty. If she’s wearing something nice, compliment her about it. If she looks great, tell her she looks really pretty.
If you feel she comfort with your association, Try to spend more times with her. if no one’s around, even better. In this way she will get more comfortable with you. Not only that, then she feels missing your company, when you are not around her. That’s a good sign. When you are not around her, try to call her, asking some advices and helps from her. Try to do things together. Let her know that being around her, is feels good you too.
If you passed above steps and still that girl is being with you means, the girl you like would most probably really like you too. But just to make sure she likes you a lot in a more-than-just-friends call her late at night or text. You could start this by texting late in the evenings, and work your way to texts in bed within a few days.
So now give it a “go”. When the time is right, ask her for a date. Ask her to go the movies or something else you both would be interested in. You could also invite her out to restaurant for a lunch. Or after emotional conversation at a late night, you could ask for a date. Or when both of you are sitting next to each others on a bench. Of course may be on a phone, if you a little shy guy. If she says "no", smile and respond gracefully by saying, "No problem! May be some other time." and change the conversation to something else.
Don’t try to confess your feelings for a girl until she begins to like you too. Shocking a girl with an unexpected confession of love is a worst thing you can do, because it’ll almost always end with her rejecting you. After all, confessing your love to a girl is the easy part. But if you want to avoid any kind of rejection and want to ensure that she’d say yes to you, do your way into your heart so she can actually like you and fall for you. When the moment’s right, pour your heart out to her and confess your love for her.
But you need to remember that the worst thing a girl could say is “no”. Of course, it’ll hurt. But think of it this way, by not telling a girl how you feel, you’re only making yourself feel miserable. And what would you do if another guy starts making a move on this girl you love?
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