If you take a closer look about this issue, you may see series of serious issues that you have not solved yet. This is characteristic of relationships and marriages where partners have a habit of postponing finding solutions to problems. Most of them think that by ignoring or just waiting for a later date to sort out a problem, things will sort themselves out. In that way they never find the solutions for issues. But After some time, a small misunderstanding finally matures into a serious problem. Perhaps, it may be a very same issue which is rising time to time. If you do not take this up with your mate to a conclusive end which is agreeable to the two of you, more serious confrontations are underway.
Other thing is, both persons may not respect for each other. If there is no respect, then you can say almost anything whether harmful and insolent. It’s a very bad situation and if you do this once, you will do it again and again. On the other hand, It could be that you are always looking for faults in your partner. If you really need to find faults of your partner, you will find many of them at the end of the day. And it will directly lead the way to endless fights.
In this world, no one is perfect, so the couples. We all have our shares of relationship troubles and marital confrontations. But if you can communicate smoothly and wisely, lot of arguments can prevent. Work together as a team to sort out your problems with love and trust. In fact, you can only succeed in all this if you work together as a team and avoid seeking to find faults. Spend your energy on the positives of your mate. It’s better to avoid fighting for invalid reasons like gossips, politics, friend’s matters, likes and dislikes of each others. You need to humble yourself and avoid talking when your mate is talking. Then argument will automatically turn to a discussion.
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